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Certainty vs. Uncertainty

Certainty vs. Uncertainty

The secret life of the high performer is often dominated by the holy grail of certainty. When certainty rules, success will emerge as the natural birth child of a given desire. All effort, all energy is concentrated on developing and establishing certainty –...
Stepping out of survival

Stepping out of survival

There is the story of Hiroo Onoda, one of only 4 Japanese soldiers who survived the American invasion of Lubang Island in the Philippines in February 1945. Hiroo Onoda was an intelligence officer who was ordered not to surrender and not to take his life.  So he...
Coming out of frozen

Coming out of frozen

He introduced himself as someone with disorganised attachment. He said it several times like he needed to show he knew who he was. I listened but also wondered. Words can be windows which open out onto the world. But words can also be blinkers leading us into narrower...
Connection

Connection

After months of emotional turbulence, life at home and at work finally began to settle. Situations in the past which would have triggered Robert’s anxiety states fell away like water off a duck’s back. He was surprised to connect to an increasing sense of tranquility...